In today's world there is so much emphasis on finding the perfect partner. Yet the divorce rate is quite high. Sometimes single people, especially if they are older, are looked at differently in society. Yet the there are so many benefits to developing a healthy relationship with the SELF, and more specifically the core self, or one's true nature. This is foundational to ALL relationships, especially intimate relationships. If the relationship with the SELF is healthy, the individual has a much better chance of finding a healthy life partner.